It’s all about YOU

Once again, it’s never about where you come from, your parents, background, your looks nor your height that determines your future…It’s all about YOU and how bad YOU want it! Education is and will remain the ONLY key to alleviate poverty!

I am a living proof, raised by a single parent, somehow my dad didn’t understand why I came 16 years after my sister, so they divorced while she was pregnant with me. I never knew my dad and it never bothered me.

My mom worked as a maid and then as a street vendor but she always preached the importance of education. So much such so, that she refused to attend my Masters graduation in 2015 and said she will only attend my Doctorate graduation … Well three years later, it happened! And as they say, the rest is nitty gritty!

To the youth out there, never allow your background – or whatever you think is the worst – to destruct, distort or destroy what you are destined for! You don’t need a mother to be a teacher to be great…You need your dreams, your goals, tenacity to stay on the course, determination to continue even when it seems impossible. And there will be a lot of sacrifices and a lot of compromises.

Prof Kgethi Phakeng once said to me, ‘Girl, go to the highest level of education until universities start looking for you!’ I took that to heart, and I was, like, I can do this!

To my family Eugene Nemadodzi, Mateo Mahani Hulisani Mudau Lesego Dzhivhuho Phathutshedzo Ratshipanga Mbedzi Queen Mashudu Netshamutsindo – Mom, sister, uncles, cousins, brothers, nieces, my friends Shandukani Mphaphuli Ntambu Gwen Netshiombo Israel Mulaudzi Nyadzawela Rachel Gadisi Nonhlanhla Mkhwanazi, Naledzani Netshikulwe #Shonisani, #RendaniNemukula, My Perfect Own Vhutshilo Thanyani – thank you so much for the support and the love you showered me with! I am humbled, I pray for divine favour for each one of you: much love! The destination hasn’t been reached as yet, so here is to the next 3 years of hard work to change the title from Dr L to Prof Nemadodzi. Onwards!

By DR Lufuno Ethel Nemadodzi

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